Baz\u0131 baba ve anneler, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 haddinden fazla sevdikleri i\u00e7in, onlar\u0131n k\u00f6t\u00fc y\u00f6nlerini asla g\u00f6remezler. Baz\u0131 zamanlar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n hatas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcr veya ba\u015fkalar\u0131ndan duyarlarsa, onlar\u0131 rahats\u0131z etmek istemedikleri i\u00e7in, o yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden gelirler ve onu tedavi etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmazlar. Ba\u015fka \u00e7ocuklara eziyet eden, insanlar\u0131 zahmete d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcren, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131, duvar\u0131n\u0131 tahrip eden, cam\u0131 k\u0131ran, k\u00fcfreden, insanlar\u0131n mal\u0131na zarar veren ve… edepsiz \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015fs\u00fcn\u00fczd\u00fcr. Ama onlar\u0131n bilin\u00e7siz baba ve anneleri, onlar\u0131 yapt\u0131klar\u0131 bu \u00e7irkin i\u015flerden al\u0131koymamakla yetinmeyip aptal\u00e7a g\u00fclerek veya onlar\u0131 yersiz yere savunarak onlar\u0131 bu i\u015flere te\u015fvik ederler. B\u00f6yle budala baba ve anneler, yersiz muhabbetleri ile dostluk \u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fc alt\u0131nda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 en b\u00fcy\u00fck h\u0131yaneti yapm\u0131\u015f olurlar ve bu zul\u00fbm Allah indinde hesaps\u0131z kalmayacakt\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011fu sevmek, onun terbiyesinden gafil olman\u0131z ve onun istedi\u011fi her i\u015fi yapmas\u0131na izin vermeniz manas\u0131na gelmez. Sevgi, terbiye etmek i\u00e7in bir ara\u00e7t\u0131r, terbiyeye mani olmamal\u0131d\u0131r. En \u00fcst\u00fcn baba ve anneler, \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 olan sevginin hesab\u0131n\u0131, onun terbiyesinden ay\u0131rteden \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 samimi bir \u015fekilde seven, ama ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i g\u00f6zle, onlar\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ve be\u011fenilmeyen s\u0131fatlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6ren ve mak\u00fbl bir y\u00f6ntemle onlar\u0131 \u0131slah etmeye \u00e7aba sarfeden baba ve annelerdir. \u00c7ocuk, k\u00f6t\u00fc ve \u00e7irkin i\u015fleri yapmada \u00f6zg\u00fcr olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve b\u00f6yle i\u015fleri yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 takdirde cezaland\u0131r\u0131laca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmelidir. Devaml\u0131 korku ile \u00fcmit aras\u0131nda ya\u015famal\u0131d\u0131r. Baba ve annenin sevgisine g\u00fcvenmemeli ve k\u00f6t\u00fc i\u015fleri kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda onlar\u0131n sertlik ve \u00f6fkelerinden korkmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 seven baba ve anneler \u015funu bilmelidirler ki, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 her zaman k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck kalmayacak ve daima onlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda olmayacakt\u0131r. Tam aksine, o, b\u00fcy\u00fcyecektir ve toplumda ya\u015famak ve insanlarla i\u00e7i\u00e7e olmak zorunda kalacakt\u0131r. E\u011fer ya\u015fama ve davran\u0131\u015f kurallar\u0131n\u0131 bilmezse ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n haklar\u0131na sayg\u0131 g\u00f6stermezse halk taraf\u0131ndan sevilmeyen biri durumuna d\u00fc\u015fer ve insanlar\u0131n ilgi ve sevgisini elde edemedi\u011fi i\u00e7in iyi ve rahat bir ya\u015fant\u0131dan yoksun olur. Halk, baba ve anne de\u011fildir; dolay\u0131s\u0131yla sizin hatalar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6zard\u0131 etmez.
\n\u0130mam Muhammed B\u00e2k\u0131r (a.s) \u015f\u00f6yle buyurur: “Babalar\u0131n en k\u00f6t\u00fcs\u00fc sevgi ve ihsanda, haddini a\u015fan kimsedir.”(125)
\nHz Ali (a.s) \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmaktad\u0131r: “Kendisine edep y\u00fcklenen kimsenin k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fckleri azal\u0131r.”(126)
\n\u0130mam Muhammed B\u00e2k\u0131r (a.s) buyuruyor ki: “Babam, o\u011flu ile y\u00fcr\u00fcyen bir adam\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc. O edepsiz \u00e7ocuk babas\u0131n\u0131n koluna yastlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Babam Zeynulabidin (a.s) o edepsiz \u00e7ocu\u011fa o kadar k\u0131zd\u0131 ki \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn sonuna kadar onunla konu\u015fmad\u0131.”(127)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Baz\u0131 baba ve anneler, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 haddinden fazla sevdikleri i\u00e7in, onlar\u0131n k\u00f6t\u00fc y\u00f6nlerini asla g\u00f6remezler. Baz\u0131 zamanlar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n hatas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcr veya ba\u015fkalar\u0131ndan duyarlarsa, onlar\u0131 rahats\u0131z etmek istemedikleri i\u00e7in, o yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden gelirler ve onu tedavi etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmazlar. Ba\u015fka \u00e7ocuklara eziyet eden, insanlar\u0131 zahmete d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcren, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131, duvar\u0131n\u0131 tahrip eden, cam\u0131 k\u0131ran, k\u00fcfreden, insanlar\u0131n mal\u0131na zarar veren …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[879,880,881],"class_list":["post-247","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-genel","tag-baba-ve-anne","tag-cocuklarini-haddinden-fazla-sevmek","tag-cocuklarini-seven-baba-ve-anneler"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.islamidavet.com\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/247","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.islamidavet.com\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.islamidavet.com\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.islamidavet.com\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.islamidavet.com\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=247"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.islamidavet.com\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/247\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.islamidavet.com\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=247"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.islamidavet.com\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=247"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.islamidavet.com\/kutuphane\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=247"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}